These great words from David McCullough Jr. during his commencement speech at Wellesley High School are a good reminder for you to do your life sincerely.
Climb a mountain not to plant your flag,
but to embrace the challenge, enjoy the air, and behold the view.
Climb mountains not so the world can see you, but so you can see the world.
Go to Paris, to be in Paris, not to cross it off your list, and congratulate yourself for being worldly.
Exercise free will and create independent thoughts, not for satisfaction that will bring you, but for the good they would do others, the rest of 6.8 billion, and those who will follow them.
and then, you too will discover the great and curious truth of human experience is that selflessness is the best thing you can do for yourself, sweetest joys of life will then come only with the recognition that you are not special, because everyone is.